i'm not opposed to happy couples. really - though i'm sure some of my friends will find that a little hard to believe. i'm just slightly opposed to change - in the sense that it feels like i'm losing a friend, rather than gaining another friend in addition to my current friend. make sense? it's because of the whole sharing thing - because yes, sharing is good, and necessary - but change and sharing just happens to takes my stubborn self longer to adjust to than it does others, which is probably because i'm totally selfish, and at least i can admit that. but alas, this is a part of the whole growing [pains] process - yippie. so maybe if i start looking at it as getting to have another friend, then it won't be so hard to get used to. :)